I regret the way I broke up with my ex. I’m a happier, more fulfilled person now, but I don’t think the whole thing was done the right way. Back then, I was colder and more callous than I am now. How do I communicate this to him without implying that I want to get back together?
AKidding. This is one of those instances that – thanks to modern technology – doesn’t need to be delivered face-to-face. In a text or Facebook message, apologise for how it unfolded. If you said something cruel or hurtful, acknowledge it while maintaining you still believe you made the right decision. Then wish him well, and say goodbye.
QAYikes, you’re not one to beat around the bush! How does he go at an all-youcan-eat restaurant? Okay, we’ll stop. This comes down to appetite. Just as there are allegedly some women who like doing the oral thing to their men and some who don’t, men feel this way, too.
Personally, we’re all for it: The more foreplay the better. CLEO contributor David Smiedt has been betraying his sex in print for over 10 years. He will tell you things your man won’t. That said, it’s pretty selfish of him to expect without reciprocation, and you have every right tell him so.
Or, just tell him to get down and get busy. Men love a bit of assertiveness in the bedroom, and few things are sexier than a woman who knows what she wants, and is prepared to demand it.
“Hey baby, feel like riding an elephant?”