boyfriend is eager to go on an elephant safari. But whenever I say that this type of activity is exploitative, he dismisses me by saying I’m “no fun”. We’ve all done things that were ethically suspect. Yet, when you do so knowingly, it becomes a question of morality. In this case, it’s about an animal ’s welfare over your next Instaboast. We stand by your decision: It’s not that you’re not being “fun”; you’re saying no to what you don’t believe in. We don’t want to say that this could be an early preview of your respective values, but, well, this could be an early preview of your respective values. Still, it need not blow up into a fight, and he should be able to respect your decision not to take part.