! AWKWARD SITUATION
Ugh, everyone’s going to blame you for making the party a dud. “Beg the person you’ve accidentally told to take pity on you and not let anyone else know you’ve let the secret slip!” says Patsy. “You can turn a tense situation around and redeem yourself by making a joke of it. If you’ve ruined the surprise, think of another surprise for the evening. (A stripper? Too risqué). If you’re apologetic and gracious when they tease you about it incessantly throughout the night, you’ll eventually be forgiven,” explains Anna.