– Dato’ Arunan Con­fliCts in your

It takes two to clap ad­vises how you should solve the mar­riage.

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Be­fore go­ing to a third party for me­di­a­tion, don’t use What­sApp or emails to try to solve a con­flict be­cause it would lead to mis­un­der­stand­ings. Have a face-to-face con­ver­sa­tion in a place that’s con­ducive, so you can help each other to un­der­stand the sit­u­a­tion.

Dis­cuss with your part­ner all your fears and wor­ries from your heart.

Make them un­der­stand from your point of view; try not to just in­form them of your own con­di­tions. When you’re at the re­ceiv­ing end of the con­ver­sa­tion, be re­cep­tive and open-minded to what your part­ner has to say. Pre-con­ceived no­tions are not help­ful in re­solv­ing the is­sue. Swal­low up your pride and apol­o­gise – es­pe­cially when you know, in your heart, you are in the wrong.

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