– Dato’ Arunan ConfliCts in your
It takes two to clap advises how you should solve the marriage.
Before going to a third party for mediation, don’t use WhatsApp or emails to try to solve a conflict because it would lead to misunderstandings. Have a face-to-face conversation in a place that’s conducive, so you can help each other to understand the situation.
Discuss with your partner all your fears and worries from your heart.
Make them understand from your point of view; try not to just inform them of your own conditions. When you’re at the receiving end of the conversation, be receptive and open-minded to what your partner has to say. Pre-conceived notions are not helpful in resolving the issue. Swallow up your pride and apologise – especially when you know, in your heart, you are in the wrong.