EX­PERT TOP TIPS FOR DEAL­ING WITH DI­VORCE

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GIVE AND TAKE

Dis­cussing the terms of a di­vorce is messy and un­pleas­ant, but it can be am­i­ca­ble if both par­ties are will­ing to be con­sid­er­ate to one another. Plan for the fu­ture for you and your child. Con­sider the long and short term plan.

SHOW THE KIDS SOME LOVE

Di­vorce can be re­ally trau­matic for chil­dren. It’s im­por­tant for both par­ents to show them that they still love them no mat­ter what.

GIVE KIDS AM­PLE TIME WITH THE OTHER PAR­ENT

A mis­take the par­ent with cus­tody of the chil­dren of­ten makes is lim­it­ing the time they spend with the other par­ent. The more you limit them, the worse they will feel.

TAKE CARE OF YOUR­SELF

Ac­cept the fact it’s over and move on. Per­haps take it in a pos­i­tive man­ner. Give your­self some TLC. Sur­round­ing your­self with a strong sup­port sys­tem will make get­ting through the tough times a lit­tle eas­ier.

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