1 Do you often confide in your partner about personal problems and other things that are important to you?
2 Is your partner mostly able to comfort and reassure you when you’re upset?
3 Does your partner often fail to take your side in disagreements or disputes with other people?
4 Does your partner ever make critical or hurtful comments about your appearance or the way you do things?
5 Does your partner find it difficult to confide in you about his or her own problems? 6 Do you often get irritable with each other?
7 Is your partner usually physically affectionate?
8 Is making love something that is important and enjoyable for both of you? Is your partner often distant and uncommunicative? 10 Does your partner share domestic responsibilities with you or (if not living with you) does your partner offer help when visiting or staying with you?