Actively teach and role-model gender equality, using these age-based strategies.
GENDER stereotypes are messing with your kid. It’s not just one movie. It’s not just one TV show.
It’s constant exposure to the same dated concepts in the media over and over, starting before preschool and lasting a lifetime – concepts like: Boys are smarter than girls; certain jobs are best for men and others for women; and even that girls are responsible for their own sexual assaults.
If you thought this stuff went out with Leave It to Beaver, the new Common Sense Media report, “Watching Gender: How Stereotypes in Movies and on TV Impact Kids’ Development”, will put you right back in June Cleaver’s kitchen.
According to the report, which analysed more than 150 articles, interviews, books, and other social-scientific research, gender stereotypes in movies and on TV shows are more than persistent; they’re incredibly effective at teaching kids what the culture expects of boys and girls.
What makes these messages stick – and harder for parents to counteract – is that they’re timed for the precise moment in kids’ development when they’re most receptive to their influence.
Think of preschoolers who are just beginning to identify as boys or girls. The characters they see on TV and in movies often have an obvious masculine or feminine appearance, such as a superhero’s big muscles or a princess’ long hair. These characteristics also are often associated with specific traits, for example, being strong and brave or fearful and meek.
Fast-forward to the tween and teen years, when characters begin to wrestle with relationships, sex, and job prospects. That “strong and brave” superhero becomes aggressive and hostile. That “fearful and meek” princess become submissive and weak.
For young audiences who absorb ideas from the media on how to behave and what to become, these characterisations can lead to false assumptions and harmful conclusions. These oversimplified characterisations play out in many ways over and over.
According to the report, a lifetime of viewing stereotypical media becomes so ingrained it can ultimately affect kids’ career choices, self-worth, relationships, and ability to achieve their full potential.
And lots of parents are concerned about these issues, too.
We polled nearly 1,000 parents across the country and found that they believe the media has a significant influence on their kids, from how girls should look and behave to how seeing violence can affect boys’ beliefs about themselves.
Luckily, parents can assert control over the messages that Hollywood dishes out. Because, let’s face it: Exaggerating the differences between boys and girls is just a ploy to keep audiences entertained. It’s not what we really want our kids to emulate.
While there are movies and TV shows that defy gender stereotypes – and Hollywood is making some progress on this front – you’re not going to be able to prevent your kids from seeing everything that sends the wrong message. And your kids probably like a lot of media that reinforces stereotypes.
Fortunately, the most powerful messages kids absorb are from you. When you actively role-model gender equality, speak out against stereotypes, and challenge outdated ideas, kids will hear that loud and clear.
Also, you have a lot of control over your kids’ media, mostly when they’re little, but even as they grow. Choose quality media that reflects your values, and talk to your kids about the movies and TV shows they watch.
Use these age-based strategies – from toddlerhood to the teen years – to reach kids at the exact moment they need to hear them. – Common Sense Media/Tribune News Service
Parents can actively debunk gender stereotypes in media portrayal, such as telling their daughters they can play with any toys they like. — 123rf.com