Elder abuse a family problem
Cases of psychological and financial abuse of elderly people are increasing and going undetected in the Waikato.
But people are being encouraged to recognise the warning signs and seek help.
Waikato Age Concern CEO Gail Gilbert deals first hand with elder abuse cases, and said almost 80 per cent of complaints are between family members and the ageing relative they are caring for.
Most common forms of abuse are around psychological and financial care of people.
‘‘Double the number of older women are abused than older men. Women with poor support systems, cognitive impairment, socially isolated and in poor physical health are the most vulnerable to being abused,’’ said Gilbert.
She said people should understand that it is possible to detect abuse.
‘‘If friends or relatives notice changes in the older person’s behaviour, without there being any known medical reason, it could be due to abuse.
‘‘Maybe you have noticed a person has stopped going to their social clubs, meeting friends, lost weight or declined in appearance, these also could be signs there could be a problem.’’
Cases of financial abuse have risen where control has been taken from an elderly person when they are still able to look after themselves.
Some elderly people may feel unable to ask for help because of the shame felt about a family member treating them poorly.
Sometimes, if the alleged abuser is living in the same house, the victim does not want to rock the boat and so will only accept a very low level of help.
But help is available in the form of Age Concern.
Victims or others who suspect abuse is happening should report it, said Gilbert.
‘‘When carrying out an investigation our staff will work with the older person and gather as many of the details as possible.’’
A plan of support is agreed to ensure the safety of the older person.
It might include freezing bank accounts, changing pin numbers or changing bank signatories.
Revoking an enduring power of attorney may be another option.
‘‘In some cases a trespass order may be filed. It really just depends on the individual circumstances, what type of abuse is alleged and how far the older person is prepared to go.’’said Gilbert.
Age Concern is dedicated to people over 65 and deal first-hand with complaints with reports.