Pamela has words of wisdom on organising the perfect hen's do and the importance of ceremonies in her feature stories on pages 138 and 148. What did you enjoy about putting together your story? It was a chance to relive my own magical day while providing some solid advice to bridesto-be. What inspires you? Motivated and organised people inspire me, especially those who despite their hectic schedules, still allocate time to nurture their own personal values. What makes a wedding memorable? The joy on the faces of the bride and groom always makes an impact.