Wise trust is so much safer.

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Wise trust is so much safer. Wise trust does the ‘due dili­gence’ that is so often miss­ing when you do an au­topsy on a re­la­tion­ship that has died. Most of us know this in­stinc­tively, so most re­la­tion­ships have a test­ing phase be­fore mov­ing into ‘deeper wa­ters’. Con­sciously or un­con­sciously, we ‘test’ peo­ple be­fore we com­mit to a more se­ri­ous re­la­tion­ship.

But even with all the due dili­gence at­tended to, you can still find your­self be­trayed. Shock, un­be­lief, anger, grief – it’s all on. Let me lay out a few calm steps to take to bring or­der out of chaos and a strat­egy to re­gain something like the se­cu­rity you once had. The one good thing in this sit­u­a­tion is that every­thing is now out in David Rid­dell is a coun­sel­lor, au­thor and com­mu­ni­ca­tor, and is the founder of the Liv­ing Wis­dom As­so­ci­a­tion of Coun­sel­lors. For more info, visit liv­ing­wis­dom.co.nz.

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