Wise trust is so much safer.
Wise trust is so much safer. Wise trust does the ‘due diligence’ that is so often missing when you do an autopsy on a relationship that has died. Most of us know this instinctively, so most relationships have a testing phase before moving into ‘deeper waters’. Consciously or unconsciously, we ‘test’ people before we commit to a more serious relationship.
But even with all the due diligence attended to, you can still find yourself betrayed. Shock, unbelief, anger, grief – it’s all on. Let me lay out a few calm steps to take to bring order out of chaos and a strategy to regain something like the security you once had. The one good thing in this situation is that everything is now out in David Riddell is a counsellor, author and communicator, and is the founder of the Living Wisdom Association of Counsellors. For more info, visit livingwisdom.co.nz.