Vintage cosmo tip, June 1972
during The Naughty.) Almost 50 percent of women say lube makes it easier to orgasm. And forget the myth that it’s only for older women—all the cool kids are doing it!
10. if you have no
clue whether your partner’s dirty-talk meter is set to “a little naughty” or “downright filthy,” do a sneaky little test. Ask, “What would you like me to do to you? Details, please.” And see what words he uses and how risqué he’s willing to get. Then follow his lead.
11. usually Get
oral with your legs spread? Intensify your O by stretching your legs straight out, stimulating the pelvic muscles you use to climax. It’s a crazy-good new sensation.
12. Gently hold
his face still, tell him to stop moving, and let him simply receive your kisses for a minute. That way, whether you like it slow or hot and heavy, he’ll know how to kiss you back. “all w omen s hould t ry f or a lit tle more variet y… a lit tle more shock value. put o n a w ig. or g ree t y our m an a t t he d oor with a mart ini in your hand and nothing o n b ut h igh h eels.” our 2015 road test Naked except for black Manolos and a long blonde wig very unlike my curly brown hair, I was already three “test” martinis deep when I wobbled to the door and greeted R.M.P. (Reluctant Male Participant, aka my boyfriend of almost two years). First, he seemed surprised, then slightly scared. But with some R-rated coaxing, I could tell he was getting into it. After we had sex, he gave me puppy-dog eyes. “Can you take that wig off now?” “Nooo, this girl is fun, I like this girl!” I replied. Did I mention I’d had three martinis? “Wasn’t it hot cheating on your girlfriend with a blonde?” I asked. He shrugged and shook his head: “I missed my girlfriend.” Then we ordered burgers, and I kept my wig on while I ate mine.