is made for the quickie. The ideal position for you is bent over, aiming the showerhead at your hot spot while he’s doing his thing from behind. No removable showerhead? Slick his fingers with shower gel, and have him reach around and give you some digital pleasure.
23. create a
secret code that translates to sexy-times. Maybe “get me a dirty martini” means “let’s blow this joint… and then each other.”
yourself how much you turn him on. Seeing his face as he’s lost in ecstasy— and realizing you’re making it happen—can be the push you need to cross the finish line.
yourself— beneath your bath jets, while watching Scandal, whatever works for you—to get to know what sensations do it for you. Are you into counterclockwise clitoral strokes? Nipple stimulation? Find out—then bring your favorite moves to your next sex session.
blow-job move: Twist your hand as you move your mouth up and down his shaft like you’re tracing the grooves of a corkscrew, and slide it over his tip each time you get to it. He’ll worship you.
27. want more
oral and less jackhammer but can’t seem to say so? Start out with a sext. Type “I can’t stop thinking about your mouth on me tonight,” throw in a kiss emoji, and hit Send. The message will be received.
28. bring a
bullet vibrator to bed. The Rabbit gets all the glory, but using a bullet vibe on your clit during doggie is a total game changer. striptease. Stage an entrance from another room, take a sensual walk around him, and slowly shed a slip to reveal a corset. (Or a thong and nipple tassels! Whatever’s your jam.) By the time you finally straddle him, you’ll both be raring to go. P.S. Leave on your heels for extra sass.
hot and cold sensations feels amazing for him during oral. If you’re not into the ol’ ice-cube-in-thecheek trick, try alternating oral with drinking something cold or warm. Even easier: Lightly blow air over him after having had him in your mouth.