dating? Set the precedent and make sure you come first. Women often focus on their guy’s orgasm and treat themselves as an afterthought. Since we’re all creatures of habit, doing the reverse pays off in the long run.
15. ask him
to trace his tongue over your thin-skinned spots: wrists, inner knees, behind your ears. It’ll make you shiver.
16. while standing
with your back against his chest, have him reach around and touch you so all you can see are his hands all over you— totally sexy.
17. wrap your
fingers in an “O” shape around the base of his shaft, and move them in tandem with your mouth. Use lots of saliva to ease the movement, and he won’t be able to tell where your mouth ends and your hand begins. Gently cup his balls with your other hand and you’re golden.
18. try the
“commercial sex” game. Start getting it on during the commercials of your favorite show, then untangle as soon as the show comes back. Sexy show? Copy their moves. As you graduate from make-outs to oral to intercourse (and back?), the teasing will be out of control.
19. keep your
dress on or just push your underwear aside to have sex. The immediacy of keeping clothes on is hot—like you can’t wait to have each other.
20. when you’re
close to climaxing, tighten and relax like you’re Kegeling. This alone can sometimes trigger an O (and it feels amazing for a guy too).
21. the hole at
the tip of his penis is called the meatus, which is the worst name given to anything, ever. (Meatus!) But it’s sensitive during arousal.