sex q& a

NO-BS re­sponses to ques­tions you can only ask Cosmo

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Q I can O only from cli­toral stim­u­la­tion, but I find it hard to have P in the V and touch my­self. How can I mas­ter the mul­ti­task?

A Truth: Only 25 per­cent of women or­gasm from vagi­nal pen­e­tra­tion alone (Those si­mul­ta­ne­ous cli­maxes in the movies? Mostly cruel Hol­ly­wood trick­ery!). So fo­cus on po­si­tions that help you achieve your kind of O, says sex ther­a­pist Gina Og­den, PHD. Dog­gie leaves you a free hand to give your clit some love with an ex­ter­nal vi­bra­tor—it elim­i­nates the trick­i­ness of fo­cus­ing on your hand mo­tions while also con­cen­trat­ing on do­ing the deed. Or try girl-ontop with a vi­brat­ing pe­nis ring, which buzzes right against your sweet spot when he’s in­side you. Be­fore you know it, you’ll be on your way to do­ing some scene-steal­ing of your own.

Q I get hor­ren­dous neck cramps ev­ery time I go down on my boyfriend. Is there a fix for this, or does it just hap­pen to ev­ery­one?

A Giv­ing good head doesn’t have to be a pain in the (wait for it…!) neck. All you really need is some sim­ple repo­si­tion­ing. If you’re in bed, try plac­ing a pil­low un­der his pelvis to bring him up closer to your face—that way you won’t be cran­ing your neck or tuck­ing your chin in. An­other pain-free so­lu­tion? Take your BJ ac­tion away from the bed­room. Have him stand up while you kneel or sit on the edge of the couch so that you can face him, well, head-on.

Q I’m 28, and my boyfriend is 48. He is wor­ried that as he gets older, he will have per­for­mance is­sues. At what age does that hap­pen? should I ex­pect that soon?

A Sixty-five is the av­er­age age when men be­gin to ex­pe­ri­ence erec­tile dys­func­tion, says urol­o­gist and male sex­ual medicine spe­cial­ist Dar­ius Pa­duch, MD. That said, your man’s health is a big­ger fac­tor than his age. “If he ex­er­cises and has a good diet, he may be as good or bet­ter off than an obese 28-year-old,” said Dr. Pa­duch. The best news for you both? Sex­er­cise to­tally counts.

Time to bring out the vi­bra­tor!

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