Q I have all th­ese flirty mes­sag­ing threads on dat­ing apps, and they never go any­where once I sug­gest tak­ing it off­line. Am I do­ing it wrong? A

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It’s not you, it’s the app. On­line, most peo­ple never fol­low through. But to up your odds, try this: (1) Put a note in your pro­file that says, “I’m not here to make friends on­line. I want to meet IRL.” (2) When you’re chat­ting, set a time limit, like 20 min­utes or 10 mes­sages, and stick to it. When you hit your limit, tell him if he wants to chat, you’d rather do it over a cock­tail. (3) Don’t wait for guys to ask you out. Just sug­gest a time and place you’d like to meet in per­son.

Fe­bru­ary 2016

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