I’ve been having amazing sex with this guy, but his condo is disgusting. How do I get him to come only to my place without offending him? A
Why be subtle when his mess is obvious? Just tell him you’d rather hang at your place. If he asks why, don’t be mean, but be clear: Your apartment can pass a health inspection; his can’t. Most guys won’t take it personally. You’re not trashing him, you’re trashing his trashy apartment.