I’m start­ing to feel like ev­ery guy I date ex­pects crazy, out-of-the-box sex—to the point where I feel like a freak for only be­ing into vanilla stuff. Is there a way I can let dudes know that ahead of time, be­fore we even make it into the bed­room, while s

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I’d rec­om­mend drop­ping a few ca­sual “but that’s not me” hints when some­thing kinky comes on TV. As in, “I’m all for sexy movies, but the spank­ing in Fiftyshades doesn’t do it for me.” Just re­mem­ber there’s no shame in your game. You’re not a prude. You have pref­er­ences and are that much cooler for own­ing them.

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