No gray areas
it. And I couldn’t just settle for one brand of candy. I had to try all of them. I loved having the variety. I can say I loved my girlfriends at the time, but did that stop me? No. A womanizer, by my definition, is someone who dates multiple women at the same time. Cheating is when you’re dating multiple women while you’re attached. As long as you have a girlfriend and you sleep with someone else or you have an intimate emotional connection with someone else, that’s cheating. There’s no gray area, it’s as simple as that. I’m not gonna lie, I cheated.
To tell you the truth, now that someone asked me about it, I guess I started cheating because I was pressured by my friends to have a girlfriend. I also felt like I was cornered into com- mitting because when I started sleeping with the woman who would become the first girl I cheated on, she immediately introduced me to her family and her friends. I had no plans of committing, so I never stopped sleeping with other women. I felt some guilt, but not enough to get me to stop.
Some of the girls I cheated with were FUBUS, some became longer relationships, but none of them ever knew I was seeing other people. The most I ever juggled at one time was around five or six girls.
all’s fair In love and War?