If I have a son, or if a friend’s son ever comes up to me asking about women, I’m going to give him just one piece of advice. I’m not going to tell him not to date multiple girls, but I will tell him that if he wants to see more than one woman, he’d better tell them about the others. If not, stick to one. Why? Because dating two or more women is not easy. It’s fucking stressful. You’re not just worrying about getting caught by a girl, you’re also worrying about getting caught by friends. You don’t just have to know where the other girls are, you have to know where their friends are. It gets devious.
I had to make crazy excuses like driving all the way to Shangri-la Plaza (my then-girlfriend was from Alabang) just to watch a movie because I said I liked the seats there better. I was afraid of getting caught, and even if I knew I had my bases covered, I was always thinking someone