I used to be game for three­somes. But now I think my BF is the one, and it doesn’t feel right. I can’t stand the thought of him hav­ing sex with some­one else, even if I’m there. He says it’s un­fair that I told him early on I was into it and now I’m veto-in

Cosmopolitan (Philippines) - - Love, Lust & Other Stuff -

Your BF has a right to be dis­ap­pointed and to tell you what he wants. But un­fair? You have a right to say no, no mat­ter what used to turn you on. He can’t de­mand a three­some. That said, you both need to put ef­fort into keep­ing your long-term re­la­tion­ship hot. I bet you can think of some other new ex­pe­ri­ence—let’s call it a con­so­la­tion prize—that’s even hot­ter be­cause you’ll both en­joy it.

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