I’m dating a guy who just got out of a yearand-a-half-long relationship. He swears he’s over it, but how do i tell if i’m his rebound?
When my guy friends rebound, they bounce in one of two directions: They tumble head over heels or find something that’s all physical. In both cases, they’re thinking of themselves. So ask yourself: Is this guy thinking of you? Does he make an effort to connect? Or could you be anybody? If he’s asking questions, remembering what you tell him, and not just bootycalling you, then it’s probably real. But if he tells you he loves you before he gets to know you—or if he only wants to get naked—he’s probably rebounding, and you should bounce.