three signs he sucks With money

Cosmopolitan (Philippines) - - Work -

1. He doesn’t want to talk about it.

“If he’s not open about what he wants or does with his money, that’s a red flag,” says Gold­man. “Not talk­ing about th­ese things can breed se­crecy and re­sent­ment.”

2. He asks you to cosign a loan early in your re­la­tion­ship.

If his credit isn’t good enough to get his own loan, that’s a bad sign. So this one is a big no. “Try to think of it like a busi­ness re­la­tion­ship,” says Gold­man. “The stakes are too high for you to put your own credit on the line, and you need to pro­tect your­self.”

3. He’s balling… out of con­trol.

“If he shops ex­clu­sively on credit cards or has a ma­jorly fi­nanced car, tread care­fully,” says Torabi. Ask how he swings such big ex­penses. This ap­plies if he’s giv­ing money away too. Gen­eros­ity is at­trac­tive, but fla­grant dis­re­gard for a bud­get? Not so much. If he al­ways splurges on bot­tle ser­vice or cov­ers din­ner for the ta­ble just to im­press, sim­ply ask why, Rap­ley says. “En­cour­ag­ing him to think about the mo­ti­va­tion be­hind his be­hav­ior may lead to a new ap­proach.”

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