Be a playah!
Being a poseur around a geeky gamer girl is highly discouraged. the hardcore gamer girls know their stuff and they abhor fakers. So really, the best way to make it work is to just start playing the games. Visit board game cafés like Dyce and Dyne. these cafés have regulars who will be happy to teach you the games available in their library. Play with yourself and learn. even better, ask your gamer girl to play with you. Girls like guys who listen to them. Geeky gamer girls aren’t any different. But with gamer girls, instead of listening to what her friend did or what clothes she bought, you’re going to hear about her latest game purchase and her killer board game session last night. Or she might lure you into a discussion on the merits of strategy and tactics. Remember that gamer girls are passionate folk. If you get them hot and excited enough with words, the rest will follow smoothly. Immerse yourself in games, past conquests, and other fandoms (books, anime, cosplay, Sherlock, Game of Thrones, Neil Gaiman… to name a few). Who knows, you might eventually dig them yourself. Once you’ve got your toys, it’s of paramount importance to protect them. Whether it’s ultraexpensive gaming mouses and keyboards, or decks of Magic: The Gathering cards, geeky gamer girls love it when they can see that you take care of your equipment. This somehow equates to them thinking you’ll be able to take care of her really well. Seeing abused and overused equipment can trigger a red flag in a gamer girl’s head. Take a cue from veteran gamers. Go to a local board game café and you’ll see gamers lovingly putting their dice in velvet pouches, or using plastic sleeves to protect each card in their legendary decks. get help online with shows like from the geeky and Sundry youtube channel or gaming sites like ign and kotaku for computer and console games.