Shy sa office crush

Inquirer Libre - - FRONT PAGE - by Bwisitin si Besh

DEAR Besh Pher,

I want to ask for your help. All my life, I’ve been single. I’m 22 years old, working on my first job as an agent. Everyday I take the MRT and I happen to have this girl crush in the office na nakakasabay ko sa biyahe kaso nahihiya naman akong pormahan s’ya. I’m not sure kung single rin s’ya. Everytime I see her, I feel giddy inside. I don’t know what to do. Help! Shy Boy

Dear Shy Boy,

Wow! Kakakilig naman ‘yan, besh. Why don’t you get to know her better? Pwede siguro ask your other officemates or mga taong kakilala n’ya sa office about her. Get more information. The modern, stalkerapproach is to add her in social media as a friend. Wala namang mawawala, ‘di ba?

Kung may FB or IG s’ya, then it’s easier to communicate. 'Yan pa lang, mine of information na tungkol sa mga interests and hobbies n’ya. Maaaring diyan ka mag-base ng mga next moves mo. Ika nga, the more you know, the more chances of winning!

In turn, makikilala ka rin niya besh. Who knows?

Be friendly and warm.

Tip: mag-comment sa posts niya or pay her a compliment. Basta ‘wag naman OA ha. Sabi nga, “flattery will get you anywhere!” Kung single si girl crush, then chances are, baka maging interesado rin s’yang makilala ka.

Be interested to be interesting. Ask questions, probe at iparamdam sa kanya na interesado kang makilala siya. One step at a time pero maging consistent at ‘wag ningas-kugon.

If may communication na kayo, why not invite her for lunch or sabayan mo sa paguwi? Just make sure na she’s comfortable first. Basta besh, go lang! Try. Malay mo, this Christmas, ibigay sa’yo ni Santa ang wish mo! Yum.

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