Moved on na, pero...
Mag-iisang taon na kaming walang communication ng ex ko after being dumped for another woman.
Ang ironic, may mga araw na tumatawag pa rin siya at nagte-text sa akin. Samantala ini-stalk naman ako ng girl sa social media account ko. I have moved on, besh. Kaso minsan gusto kong awayin pareho. Hahaha. Anong maipapayo mo? Miss B
Dear Miss B.,
Sometimes the best way to move forward is to not look back. O-ha! Besh are you listening?
I think the best way to deal with this situation is to totally cut off these two from your life. Do not answer calls, or entertain any form of commu- nication from any of them.
Do not check messages or comments from FB, friendship. Please huwag mong pansinin and do not give your precious time to any of them.
Tandaan, the more time and energy na binibigay mo sa kanila, the harder it is to move on.
To truly focus and get on with your life, you need to cut them off. Be self-aware. Kung sa tingin mo wala naman silang naidudulot na mabuti sa life mo or sa ‘yong sanity then I think it’s best to close this chapter.
I believe we’re always given a choice and I think it’s always best to choose what’s best for us.
Kung papatagalin mo pa ‘ to besh, baka mahirapan ka lang. Sabi mo nga, isang taon na.
I think you can still give yourself time and really ponder kung tama pa bang pagaksayahan sila ng oras.
Proactively seek other “interests” and by that I mean, why not check the dating scene or other worthy prospects, ‘ di ba? Besh, you deserve so much more.