Go For It – Need some help?

SHE Carribean Magazine - - RELATIONSHIPS -

Just ask him out! He might be wait­ing for you to make the move. This hap­pens a lot with shy guys. Sim­ply ask, “Would you like to have a cof­fee/ drink with me some­time? What about next Tues­day/ week­end? ” If he re­jects, don’t take it per­son­ally, you’ll know where you stand, leav­ing you free to try another con­quest.

Dur­ing cof­fee/drink tell him you’re in­quis­i­tive about him, you find him at­trac­tive – that you have no ex­pec­ta­tions about your ad­mis­sion but you like the feel­ings you ex­pe­ri­ence when you think of him. Let’s face it, if he wasn’t in­quis­i­tive him­self, he wouldn’t have joined you…es­pe­cially if you’ve in­vited him to your house in­stead of the reg­u­lar cof­fee house.

If he ap­pears shy, look again, he may just be weigh­ing up the sit­u­a­tion; he may be re­served. Re­mem­ber you are at­tracted to him, you don’t know him yet so don’t make any de­mands just tell him you’d like an op­por­tu­nity to get to know him.

Dress el­e­gantly. You can’t go wrong with wear­ing black with bright but not large ac­ces­sories. If he’s com­ing to your home think about what you re­ally want out of the oc­ca­sion…and dress ac­cord­ingly.

Have a se­lec­tion of drinks, beers and juices and food you can quickly rus­tle up if need be – that’s an im­pres­sive start.

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