Go For It – Need some help?
Just ask him out! He might be waiting for you to make the move. This happens a lot with shy guys. Simply ask, “Would you like to have a coffee/ drink with me sometime? What about next Tuesday/ weekend? ” If he rejects, don’t take it personally, you’ll know where you stand, leaving you free to try another conquest.
During coffee/drink tell him you’re inquisitive about him, you find him attractive – that you have no expectations about your admission but you like the feelings you experience when you think of him. Let’s face it, if he wasn’t inquisitive himself, he wouldn’t have joined you…especially if you’ve invited him to your house instead of the regular coffee house.
If he appears shy, look again, he may just be weighing up the situation; he may be reserved. Remember you are attracted to him, you don’t know him yet so don’t make any demands just tell him you’d like an opportunity to get to know him.
Dress elegantly. You can’t go wrong with wearing black with bright but not large accessories. If he’s coming to your home think about what you really want out of the occasion…and dress accordingly.
Have a selection of drinks, beers and juices and food you can quickly rustle up if need be – that’s an impressive start.