Have you ever wondered what your O face looks like? Well, wonder no more. “You are your first lover,” explains clinical sexologist Dr Martha Lee. Also, use the chance to take a closer look at your vagina in the mirror because, hey, you’ve got to know your own intimate parts so you can teach your partner how to get you off. There are mental health benefits to this, too. “Being able to see what your lover sees by looking at yourself in the mirror can be a liberating or even healing experience for some,” says Dr Lee. Orgasms = stress relief, and touching your clitoris (that little protrusion at the top of your vulva) is one of the quickest ways to get you there. Stimulate it by running your finger over it.