Ask the Men: What Made Him Re­alise He Wants a Se­ri­ous Re­la­tion­ships?

In which we ask three men to get candid.

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“Per­son­ally, I feel that ev­ery guy ul­ti­mately wants a se­ri­ous re­la­tion­ship. When I met my cur­rent girl­friend, she came off as some­one who’s very ca­pa­ble and de­ci­sive. She also isn’t afraid to speak her mind or dis­agree with things that

And she doesn’t like. when­ever I do some­thing that doesn’t sit well with her, she tells it like it is – with­out any pas­siveag­gres­sive­ness. I soon came to re­alise that I have a lot of re­spect for her, and I care about what she has to say. That’s when I knew she’s the one.” “When it comes to re­la­tion­ships, the end goal is that you ei­ther get mar­ried, or break up. And I’m not at the stage of my life where I’m think­ing about mar­riage. That might change for me some­where down the road, but the way I see it, there’s no guar­an­teed way to tell if some­one is meant to

Un­til I meet that be your life part­ner. per­son who will make me con­sider tak­ing the next big step, I don’t think I would want to be in a se­ri­ous re­la­tion­ship. That’s just do­ing right by my­self, and her as well.” “The up­grade from a friend­ship to a re­la­tion­ship is a beau­ti­ful and scary thing. I knew I wanted a se­ri­ous re­la­tion­ship when I walked into her house and my phone con­nected to the Wi-Fi au­to­mat­i­cally. Another key thing is I want her to be in­volved I value her in­put in my life. and what she says ac­tu­ally makes a dif­fer­ence in my life. Another good in­di­ca­tor’s when I found my­self want­ing to change for her. They say a friend is like a book – you don’t need to read all of them, you just have to pick the ones you like. But a se­ri­ous re­la­tion­ship is like a tat­too – it sticks with you for­ever, so you have to choose wisely!”

Shaun Tu­paz, 31

Kelvin Ho, 22

Carter Huff, 25

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