Bring in the reinforcements
#Tip 3 Timing is crucial if you want to climax together. Sex toys can help with that. “Holding a vibrator over the clitoral area while he’s inside you is an effective way of speeding up arousal, and helping you hit the Big O together,” says Martha.
But be sensitive to your guy. “Some men don’t like introducing something ‘mechanical’ into the bedroom, as it could make them feel inadequate,” she adds. Start with a sex toy that looks discreet and less intimidating. #Tip 4