HOW TO HAVE AWESOME STAYCATION SEX
You’ve splashed a pretty dime on the room, now here’s how to get bang for your buck.
What makes hotel sex so hot? Aside from the fact that your neighbors in the next room might hear you, it’s most likely because doing it in a different venue adds variety to your sex life.
“Any time couples try sex in a new place, there’s an adventure element to it,” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., author of Sultry Sex Talk to Seduce Your Lover. “Focus on what’s fun about the situation, as this will make the execution easier and have you feeling like you’ve been transported to another place for lovemaking.”
A massage, whether it’s Swedish, hot stone, or deep tissue, will get you both relaxed and ready for even more intimate touching. Pampering her gets her in the ‘I deserve this’ mind frame, which will have her owning her sexual desires, says Fulbright.“A massage on your staycation can offer so many benefits to you as lovers and as a couple,” she says. Take turns playing masseuse, or let the professionals do it— in-home massages provided by companies like Zeel are a surefire aphrodisiac.
Also, staycation sex feels so effortless because we tend to walk around without a lot of clothing on.“Shedding inhibitions can have you feeling like new lovers again, willing to be daring and indifferent to any restrictions society wants to put on your body or sex life,” says Fulbright.
Plus, seeing each other naked and feeling your body in its natural form can make you feel aroused, she says.