You’ve splashed a pretty dime on the room, now here’s how to get bang for your buck.

Men's Health (Singapore) - - FIELD GUIDE -

What makes ho­tel sex so hot? Aside from the fact that your neigh­bors in the next room might hear you, it’s most likely be­cause do­ing it in a dif­fer­ent venue adds va­ri­ety to your sex life.

“Any time cou­ples try sex in a new place, there’s an ad­ven­ture el­e­ment to it,” says Yvonne K. Ful­bright, Ph.D., au­thor of Sul­try Sex Talk to Se­duce Your Lover. “Focus on what’s fun about the sit­u­a­tion, as this will make the ex­e­cu­tion eas­ier and have you feel­ing like you’ve been trans­ported to another place for love­mak­ing.”

A mas­sage, whether it’s Swedish, hot stone, or deep tis­sue, will get you both re­laxed and ready for even more in­ti­mate touch­ing. Pam­per­ing her gets her in the ‘I de­serve this’ mind frame, which will have her own­ing her sex­ual de­sires, says Ful­bright.“A mas­sage on your stay­ca­tion can of­fer so many ben­e­fits to you as lovers and as a cou­ple,” she says. Take turns play­ing masseuse, or let the pro­fes­sion­als do it— in-home mas­sages pro­vided by com­pa­nies like Zeel are a sure­fire aphro­disiac.

Also, stay­ca­tion sex feels so ef­fort­less be­cause we tend to walk around with­out a lot of cloth­ing on.“Shed­ding in­hi­bi­tions can have you feel­ing like new lovers again, willing to be dar­ing and in­dif­fer­ent to any re­stric­tions so­ci­ety wants to put on your body or sex life,” says Ful­bright.

Plus, see­ing each other naked and feel­ing your body in its nat­u­ral form can make you feel aroused, she says.

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