YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
The next time you start feeling insecure about your body, remember this: What you consider ugly may not even be a problem for your husband. While you’re wasting energy fussing over those saggy boobs or muffin top, your man still loves every inch of you.
“Your husband probably doesn’t have a perfect body and doesn’t expect you to have one either. So dim the lights if you must, but be confident that if your man has already chosen you, then he’ll enjoy being naked with you,” says dating and relationship coach David Tian, director of Aura Dating Academy. If that’s not enough to convince you, see how these women get over their own issues. “I’ve always been conscious about my stretch marks and didn’t want my husband to see them. My sex life was affected for about a year. But then I realised that all I had to do was switch off the lights! We could still see each other’s outlines in the dark – groping is the new foreplay to me.” – Annie, 37, stay-at-home mum “I used to be fit but since getting pregnant and becoming a mum, I’ve developed a bulging tummy. So I’m always in the missionary position. I believe that if I’m lying flat on my back, my tummy will look flat too!” – Natasha, 32, logistics clerk “I’ve always been busty, so you can imagine how saggy my breasts are now after four children. My husband loves them of course, but I feel dowdy. To get over that, I make sure that I’m always on top – if he does make any comments about my saggy boobs, I can always blame gravity.” – Sheena, 38, communications consultant