But Give Him a Break, Too!

Simply Her (Singapore) - - Help Your Hubby -

If all else fails, you may have to learn to ad­just to, and bear with, your hus­band’s habits. Af­ter all, you may need him to tol­er­ate some of yours too, says Lil­ian.

“We’re crea­tures of habit and it takes a lot of ef­fort to change one’s be­hav­iour. Mar­riage doesn’t change a per­son’s ways. Your spouse’s habits were formed way be­fore he got mar­ried – they’re not likely to go away af­ter mar­riage,” she adds. “At the end of the day, it’s about be­ing tol­er­ant of each other’s faults and be­ing gra­cious about one an­other’s long-stand­ing bad habits. You both just have to learn to live with each other.”

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