In Your Husband
• Sudden and drastic makeover (changes in wardrobe, grooming habits, personal hygiene). • Changes in how he relates to you: Either he becomes very affectionate for no apparent reason or he becomes extremely distant. • Changes in the frequency or quality of your sex life. • An increase in time spent with the helper (for example, taking her to the movies with the kids and going grocery shopping with her). • He defends the helper when you complain or raise an issue about her.