Normalise the topic
“I ﬁnd normalising the topic when someone is about to start with mum-shaming me works,” says mum Nerissa Mae Jandayan, also a NMSG committee member in her 30s.
“I would say something like, ‘It’s great that works for you. I hope it will work out for us, too. For now, we are doing good with our arrangement, but we are always open to changes’.” End the discussion there.