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#Trending’s resident sex coach, Jade Zwane, has a 10-point list for you to consider if you’re passionate about no-strings sex
One-night stands are exciting because of the potential danger and mystery. The nostrings-attached benefit is appealing to many. Sometimes one wants the physical gratification without the work that comes with a committed relationship.
However, with all the possible fun comes some responsibility to ensure a good and safe time for all involved. Here are a few guidelines:
Genital hygiene and cleanliness are non-negotiable. Freshen up before if it’s been a long day. Your underwear should not be granny panties. Pick something sexy, relatively new and, most importantly, clean.
Be safe. Let a friend know where you are at all times. With technology, you can easily send your location to a friend if you’re not at your place.
Condoms are another nonnegotiable. Regardless of whether you’re male or female, always carry condoms. Women who carry condoms are not sluts. They are smart and practical. The brand name matters only to a few. (It matters to me. Latex-free shows a bit of extra effort.)
Don’t be an idiot. If you say you’re going to call afterwards, do so. If you have no intention of doing so, don’t make empty promises.
Don’t be too affectionate. Your onenight stand is not your girlfriend or
NO STRINGS Into one-night stands? Be clean, safe and have fun