OUR CHERISHED FREEDOMS
City Press asks youngsters who are now the same age as the country’s democracy about the freedoms they celebrate. They all believe dreams can come true, writes Ndileka Lujabe
was born in Pretoria, Soshanguve, in my grandmother Elizabeth’s house. I had an amazing upbringing in a family full of love and respect. I learnt that, without love and support in a family, nothing else matters.
About three months ago, I landed a job at an insurance company, and I have also just enrolled at Unisa for a degree. Finding a job was hard. Some people in my generation believe that, by going to school and obtaining a qualification, job opportunities will come rolling in without them having to look for them.
It’s the opposite. If one wants a job, one has to look. Put in the time and the effort, and something will come up. We expect to start in the highest positions, forgetting that we all have to start somewhere. Start small, work hard and your efforts will be noticed.
Life as a born-free in the middle class is all I know. Having the title “born-free” is very liberating and brings a sense of relief. But being a middle class born-free is difficult if you let lazy peers’ voices get inside your head – peers who do not see themselves as being as successful as you, or who find a way to put you down for trying to better yourself.
I’ve also realised that misery needs company and I cannot let that get to me. This is my own race to run.
Black tax hasn’t been much of a problem for me. If anything, I find it amusing. Going to my grandmother’s house in the township and finding uncles and aunts who see me as an ATM really does make me chuckle.
I don’t think I have more freedoms than others. The term ‘born-free’, which is one that we have been given, often makes people feel entitled to a lot more than we actually have. The difference between myself and someone born in 1993 is just months – nothing more or less. We all need to work hard.
Freedom is being myself in a country that doesn’t find fault in me being exactly that; it’s letting me make my own decisions without being judged by my sexual preference.
Being a born-free means being born in a time when growing up black isn’t frowned upon. Growing up black is growing up in a rainbow nation and a free country.
I know the kind of life I want to live. My hopes and dreams are for a fulfilling life. I’d like to become a stronger African woman who is successful in her own right, and I am going to put effort into it.
If going to school is what I have to do, that’s exactly what I’ll do. If staying up late at night to finish the tasks that need to be done is what I need to do, I’ll do that.
Only I am in charge of my life and if I sleep all the time, I might as well accept my fate.
I would like government to offer better education to South Africa’s youth and better fund upcoming projects that seem promising for the country’s economy.” was born in Soshanguve, Block BB. Growing up wasn’t easy, but I enjoyed being a child. I have two younger brothers and an elder brother. I rarely got what I wished for, but I was an understanding child and knew there was no money available. I used to eat lunch at school that was provided by a feeding scheme when I had no lunch box or money. I used to walk a long distance to school, but I still went because my mother once told me that the only way to overcome poverty was to get an education. My mother is the one from whom I learnt a lot of things, such as never giving up. She started working as a professional nurse at the age of 38. She was a domestic worker before that. She paid for my tertiary studies and denied herself many things so that I could get a qualification and change my life. It wasn’t easy, but I was able to find a job a month after graduating. The job does not coincide with what I studied, but it was the first one to come up and I couldn’t reject it because I know jobs are scarce. I am now middle class. I am fortunate and privileged, but not rich enough to be able to afford everything. It means I am grateful for the food on my table and the roof over my head. I know I will not always get what I want. I don’t have an issue with black tax because I believe it is my responsibility to support and invest in my family. I don’t believe I must be paid back all the money I have spent, or will spend, on my family. To me, freedom means having the right to choose my own political party, being allowed to question how things are done by government officials, and being allowed to question corruption and nepotism, which is why many people are qualified yet unemployed. However, as a born-free, I know that freedom comes with responsibility; I know I should not abuse or waste resources and facilities in the name of freedom, and that I should not say and do unethical and immoral things because I am born free. I want to be an author, a scriptwriter, have my own business and my own clothing label. I also want to be a radio presenter and an actor, and I want a law degree. I believe it’s possible. I have worked hard putting my dreams into action: I volunteered at a community radio station, I have a blog and I have recently started my own business called AfriEra, where I sell headwraps in different African prints. Next year, I’ll be registering at Unisa for a law degree. It might sound impossible, but I would love government to allow higher education to be free. I want my siblings to go to university free of charge.”
GO-GETTERS Keabetsoe Mokoena and Refiloe Leballo are from Pretoria and Emalahleni, respectively. Both are graduates and currently live in Johannesburg RESPONSIBLE