Ask Him Any Thing
for granted. The bottom line? There’s a reason why your guy owes someone else money – because it’s their job to lend, not yours. Is his reduced interest worth increased stress on your part? as could you! I say this not to freak you out more, but to remind you that nothing is ever guaranteed. If you let fear prevent you from having fun now, you’ll never be able to relax and enjoy a relationship again. And guess what? When you’re a mom, it’s not for you to navigate around men; bae needs to fit in with your family, and make it work for the three of you. As long as you’re upfront about your priorities and needs, and he’s fully in the loop about your baby, there’s no need to worry any more than you would normally do at the start of any new relationship. Don’t let your fears ruin what could be a good thing.
MY MAN HAS A LOT OF CLOSE GIRLFRIENDS – ONES HE SEES OFTEN, BY HIMSELF. IT MAKES ME UNCOMFORTABLE THAT HE HAS ALL THESE RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHER WOMEN THAT DON’T INCLUDE ME OR HIS GUY FRIENDS. HOW CAN I VOICE THIS WITHOUT COMING ACROSS AS PARANOID OR CONTROLLING?