My ex has been sending me lirty DMs. I’ve been ignoring them – but should I tell my current BF? I don’t want to upset him because there’s nothing to worry about, but I also don’t want him to think I’m hiding anything.
Your ex probably isn’t messaging because he just wants to be friends… Since you have nothing to hide, be honest with your current bae. You don’t need to show him the messages, but letting him know your ex has made contact – and that you’re ignoring him – will put your conscience at ease and let your BF know he can trust you. This is especially NB if the situation escalates – like if bae sees a DM notiication on your phone, and feels you were hiding it from him. You can also tell your ex to stop making contact. A irm ‘Thanks but no thanks’ reply to one of the DMs (and showing it to your BF) will send the right message to everyone involved.