LONG DISTANCE LOVE.
I have mixed feelings .I have been in a long distance relationship for close to 4 years and my girlfriend is staying in Vaal. I have never been with her since when we were in Limpopo the last time. She told me she has been with someone since last year January, because I was always absent. The problem is that I have been absent, but it hurts me that another man came into scene. I am just jealous because another guy has come to be with my girlfriend. I dumped her last week, but I now realise that I was the one who is wrong by not being there. She told me she told the new guy about me , but still I was not around .Am I fair ,must I continue with her since I still love her ?I do take the blame that I was not there .I am feeling angry at the same time I blame myself.
Leaving her while you know you feel guilty and still love her is a bad idea. You are full of anger and in no state of making any final decisions .You must take all the time you need to heal and when your mind is fresh again only then will you know what you want .People make mistakes all the time forgive them, it will also help you to be at peace with all that happened. The fact that she told the guy she is seeing that you are in the picture means she still loves you and has the hope that you would one day come back for her, therefore fight for her. I believe the reason she did not leave is that she understands the situation that you are far and you not doing it with the intention of hurting her. I suggest you be brave to forgive and apologize to her for putting her in that position. Remember that you will only feel guilty when you are guilty. Your mixed emotions are correct, you did her wrong out of anger. It’s not wrong that you did her wrong, you were angry she will understand.