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“If he’s up for it when I’m not, my favourite thing is to watch and listen to him masturbate under the covers, in the dark. He gets to come, and I enjoy that intimate, half-asleep feeling of him brushing up against me as he’s touching himself.” – Ellen, 23
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“Watching porn together and masturbating at the same time always works for us. Sometimes we’ll make it fun and race to see who comes first.” – Raquel, 26
“Sometimes, it’s about being upfront with each other. I can’t and don’t want to have swinging-from-the-chandelier sex all the time. But instead of saying, ‘I’m too tired’, I tell my boyfriend, ‘I want you, but I might not be a sexual dynamo this time.’ It’s a great way to ease into a lazy, sexy spooning session.” – Sophie, 23