“I ex­plored what felt right for me”

Glamour (South Africa) - - You You You -

“When my long-term re­la­tion­ship ended, I was ex­cited to ex­plore ar­eas I couldn’t with my ex: group sex, three­somes, sleep­ing with girls! I met a cou­ple on Tin­der and none of us ex­pected more than a night of fun. But to our sur­prise, we clicked and kept see­ing one an­other. I turned 31 and felt pres­sure to find a boyfriend, but I didn’t click with guys I met. That’s when I re­alised: this cou­ple is the best re­la­tion­ship I’ve had. They treat me with re­spect, love and ten­der­ness, and tell me they adore my mind as much as my body. I never thought I’d be in a poly/group re­la­tion­ship, and it’s scary to go off the beaten path to forge some­thing great, but em­brac­ing this right now feels most true.” – Abby, 31

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