Con­nect with peo­ple in a warm way

Glamour (South Africa) - - All ABout You -

“It’s ac­tu­ally fan­tas­tic that you’re con­nect­ing with peo­ple on a deeper, more emo­tional way. So don’t shut down these feel­ings com­pletely. Think about it this way: feel­ing nice about some­one you had nice sex with makes as much sense as feel­ing nice about some­one that you had a good con­ver­sa­tion with. Ac­knowl­edge your feel­ings and take them for what they are – a pleas­ant re­ac­tion to a pleas­ant ex­pe­ri­ence, and that’s it. Oh, and re­mem­ber: you could also get out of this loop by mas­tur­bat­ing some­times in­stead!” – Dr Carol Queen, au­thor of Ex­hi­bi­tion­ism for the Shy (Down There Press; R300)

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