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Men's Health (South Africa) - - HEALTH + WELLNESS -

We keep ask­ing, and women keep telling us: more fore­play. In our sur­vey, it beat out oral, touch­ing, kink and dirty talk as their prime re­quest. Women need fore­play for the arousal that leads to desire, says Kerner. His fe­male clients also com­plain about a lim­ited sex menu, so fore­play’s va­ri­ety (all that kiss­ing, rub­bing, talk­ing, stroking) can work won­ders. Even an episode of a hot show like The Girl­friend Ex­pe­ri­ence or Masters of Sex can help. “Hu­mans can get very aroused with­out any phys­i­cal touch,” he says. Be show­ered and ready be­fore you dim the bed­room lights and press play. Tell her she’s hot­ter than the ac­tress in the show, and let your hands ex­plore each other’s laps. When cred­its roll, start kiss­ing. Another thing to watch: each other, touch­ing your­selves. And you thought fore­play was bor­ing! 34% of women want more fore­play, the num­ber-one thing they want more of in bed. Num­ber two: touch­ing dur­ing sex (22%).

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