A COUPLE’S VIEW
Power couple and co-authors, Mo and Phindi, advise a woman who is worried about her man’s calling
MY man and I have been together for the past two and half years. We have grown a great liking for each other and it was all thanks to our compatible lifestyles. We enjoyed a time of partying and dancing with friends until he told me he could no longer go to clubs with me.
At first he wouldn’t explain why but he recently found the courage to do so. He says he has a calling to be a pastor and can no longer entertain the life we had.
He says he doesn’t want to part ways with me but we have to change our lifestyle, as a couple, if I am to become a future Mamfundisi.
He says I must change the way I dress and I am struggling to adapt to the growing demands.
In the past, I ended a relationship after I learned my partner was going to become a sangoma.
I seem to attract men with callings and don’t know how to cope with this. Should I stay or go?