Power cou­ple and co-au­thors, Mo and Phindi, ad­vise a woman who is wor­ried about her man’s call­ing

MY man and I have been to­gether for the past two and half years. We have grown a great lik­ing for each other and it was all thanks to our com­pat­i­ble life­styles. We en­joyed a time of par­ty­ing and danc­ing with friends un­til he told me he could no longer go to clubs with me.

At first he wouldn’t ex­plain why but he re­cently found the courage to do so. He says he has a call­ing to be a pas­tor and can no longer en­ter­tain the life we had.

He says he doesn’t want to part ways with me but we have to change our life­style, as a cou­ple, if I am to be­come a fu­ture Mam­fun­disi.

He says I must change the way I dress and I am strug­gling to adapt to the grow­ing de­mands.

In the past, I ended a re­la­tion­ship af­ter I learned my part­ner was go­ing to be­come a san­goma.

I seem to at­tract men with call­ings and don’t know how to cope with this. Should I stay or go?


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