MOVE! EX­PERT AD­VICE

Move! - - HELP-A-SISTA -

Nthabiseng Madikgetla, a so­cial worker, says, “I am sorry for the pain that you have ex­pe­ri­enced in the six years of your mar­riage. Mar­riage is about two in­di­vid­u­als who made the de­ci­sion to get married. As true as that may be, we can­not ig­nore the role and in­flu­ence that other peo­ple, such as chil­dren and fam­ily, have on the mar­riage. From the in­for­ma­tion that you have shared, it im­plies that for the past two years your mar­riage has been over and the only rea­son that has kept you to­gether is the chil­dren. I rec­om­mend that be­fore you make a de­ci­sion, be hon­est with your­self. You need to make choices and live with the con­se­quences of those choices. I also rec­om­mend that you seek pro­fes­sional help in or­der to con­front those mixed feel­ings you are ex­pe­ri­enc­ing which are re­sult­ing in the in­ner con­flict and con­fu­sion that you are go­ing through right now. Good luck to you.”

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