‘ Out, evil Dana!’


Sunday World - - Hot News - MDUDUZI DLAMINI

‘ How can you make love to a mar­ried man and your friend’s hus­band?’

YOU RE evil,” reads part of a text mes­sage sent to Afro-soul mu­si­cian Simphiwe Dana by Mpon­domise Hi­lary "Mise" Day­ile.

Day­ile is the friend and busi­ness part­ner of Dana's now ex-lover Lebo Keswa.

She ap­par­ently sent the SMS af­ter Dana slept with for­mer singer, now prison pas­tor and busi­ness strate­gist Lucky Sha­bangu, who is mar­ried.

From the SMSES Dana ex­changed with our source, it is clear she's head-over­heels in love with Sha­bangu, who claims he stopped the af­fair to save his mar­riage.

“I’m sure by now you know that I don’t feel that lov­ing Lucky is a mis­take. I'm very re­morse­ful about the im­pact it has had on our fam­i­lies and I wish I could turn back time when we had not met and never would,” she Smssed.

“As I said love is not a choice oth­er­wise we would choose oth­er­wise (sic). We’re not that stupid as hu­man species. I'm naive in love and I wouldn ’ t have it other way.”

When ap­proached for her side of the story, Keswa, a di­vorced mother of two, who is open about her les­bian sex­u­al­ity, says: I'm sorry for the day I ever met Simphiwe. She's brought noth­ing but chaos and destruc­tion to my life. Oh, my God, you “also know that I kicked her out?”

She shows Sun­day World the SMS she sent to Dana when she learnt about her li­ai­son with Sha­bangu and in which she tells her to get out of her Sandton house.

It reads in part: “Ever since I met you I have had mixed state of (sic) feel­ings; some­times I don’t know who you are or who I am ... you ’ re lov­ing and sweet soul to­day the next day you’re spite­ful and de­struc­tive.

“We make love to­day the next mo­ment you make love with other peo­ple’s lovers.

“How can you make love to a mar­ried man and your friend’s hus­band? I just don’t know who you are. Get out my life; get out of my house.

“That’s where it ends be­tween you and me. I don’t want to see you any­more. ”

This is ap­par­ently not the first time Dana has been un­faith­ful to Keswa. On a pre­vi­ous oc­ca­sion she spent time with Keswa s ex-lover, who is sev­eral years younger than her.

Keswa let that one go, but sleep­ing with Sha­bangu was the last straw.

Day­ile was the first to spring into ac­tion. She fired off an SMS ex­press­ing dis­may that Dana dated Sha­bangu when she knew he was mar­ried and was friends with Sha­bangu's wife Thofo.

In the SMS Day­ile writes: “You’re evil. You’ve left destruc­tion wher­ever you ’ ve been. You de­stroy other peo­ple’s lives. Go out of our lives and leave us in peace. You come and just claim things. We ’ ve been quiet when you go around not men­tion­ing us as the own­ers of the club.” Sha­bangu put Dana up in a Rose­bank ho­tel un­til month-end, when her publi­cist will va­cate her Orange Grove house.

Asked to com­ment, Sha­bangu says: There s no woman worth my mar­riage. I have apol­o­gised to my wife for what hap­pened. My love af­fair with Simphiwe only lasted for eight days. It was a hu­man er­ror “on my part but my fam­ily and church comes first to me. I can't risk my lov­ing wife and my faith. As for pro­vid­ing Simphiwe with a place to stay, it's only for a week un­til month end. I couldn t throw out a “’ mother and chil­dren af­ter she was chased away by Lebo, who is also a friend. You must re­mem­ber “that Simphiwe is also a mother.” dlamin­imd@sun­day­world.co.za

SMS S2 and your com­ments to 32467. SMSES are R1 each.

Picture by Halden Krog

BOUNCED OUT: Singer Simphiwe Dana’s lover kicked her out of their love nest af­ter find­ing out about the af­fair.

‘SORRY’: Lucky Sha­bangu has ended it too

LAST STRAW: Lebo Keswa

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