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Sunday World - - Hola Mzansi - STAFF REPORTER

VALEN­TINE S DAY has come and gone, but it doesn’t mean the ro­mance should too.

Cou­ples of­ten won­der how they can keep the flames burn­ing be­yond the day most peo­ple deem a cliché and a mega com­mer­cial hype.

Treat­ing your sig­nif­i­cant other to din­ner, buy­ing flow­ers and choco­lates or go­ing on a pic­nic should be things that cou­ples do through­out the year.

In a Durex sur­vey it was re­ported that 43% of the par­tic­i­pants were keen to break free from the bore­dom and to do things dif­fer­ently with their lovers. A fur­ther 30% wanted more spon­tane­ity in their re­la­tion­ship and 28% said they craved more pas­sion.

Here are some things you could do to re­vive in­ti­macy in your re­la­tion­ship.

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In­vest in a Play Vi­bra­tions cock ring and start los­ing count of the num­ber of times you both cli­maxed to­gether. This soft and stretchy ring is de­signed to be com­fort­ably worn at the base of the pe­nis, and can fit over a con­dom or di­rectly onto the skin.

Pop it on when the male is erect. Po­si­tion the vi­brat­ing mo­tor on the top of his shaft to stim­u­late her cli­toris dur­ing pen­e­tra­tion, in­creas­ing her chances of or­gasm, or swing it round so that it rests against his pros­trate to add an ex­tra mind-blow­ing buzz dur­ing in­ter­course.

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Show­ing love is not about spend­ing money but more about spend­ing time con­nect­ing with your part­ner. Why not slow the pace down and ded­i­cate time to prac­tis­ing Pom­poir

This is a sex­ual tech­nique whereby the woman is in a mis­sion­ary po­si­tion and you stay as still as pos­si­ble the woman re­peat­edly stim­u­lates the man by rhyth­mi­cally clench­ing and un­clench­ing her pelvic floor mus­cles.

Con­sider buy­ing white roses in­stead of red ones, and ac­com­pa­ny­ing them with a magic po­tion” (in re­al­ity, red food colour­ing that you’ve de­canted into a pretty bot­tle) to be added to a vase of wa­ter. Over the fol­low­ing days, the flow­ers will take up the colour and change from white to pink. Sim­ple and af­ford­able, yet mem­o­rable and quirky.

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Most cou­ples like to watch a sexy movie to­gether. So why not try play­ing the film’s sound­track in the bed­room for the cin­e­matic mood as part of your fore­play. A mas­sage us­ing stim­u­lat­ing oils works won­ders.

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