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If Fifty Shades is to be be­lieved, we’d all be cli­max­ing at the crack of a whip or a lin­ger­ing glance from a hot man. But for most of us, reach­ing a quick, easy and still ut­terly mind-blow­ing or­gasm ev­ery time we have sex is more like stum­bling across a Chanel bar­gain in a vin­tage shop – pretty rare. Get­ting over the ec­stasy edge isn’t ev­ery­thing, but more of­ten than not our men have crossed the fin­ish line and are do­ing laps of hon­our be­fore we’ve even started the en­gine. Which might be why a re­cent sur­vey found that one in four women fake the big O ev­ery time they have sex. And one in three women have rarely – or never – had an or­gasm at all.

“It’s im­por­tant to un­der­stand that or­gasms are a re­flex re­ac­tion – they’re not guar­an­teed and they don’t hap­pen ev­ery time you have sex,” says Dr Stu­art Flana­gan from Ra­dio 1’s The Surgery. Still, we think fak­ing it should only be for eye­lashes and man­i­cures. So put down your do­geared copy of Fifty Shades Darker, ladies – your or­gasms are about to get real. Here are seven or­gasms to help get your groove back.

Deep in­side you, where the end of your vagina meets your cervix, there are two mega arousal zones —your an­te­rior and pos­te­rior

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