If Fifty Shades is to be believed, we’d all be climaxing at the crack of a whip or a lingering glance from a hot man. But for most of us, reaching a quick, easy and still utterly mind-blowing orgasm every time we have sex is more like stumbling across a Chanel bargain in a vintage shop – pretty rare. Getting over the ecstasy edge isn’t everything, but more often than not our men have crossed the finish line and are doing laps of honour before we’ve even started the engine. Which might be why a recent survey found that one in four women fake the big O every time they have sex. And one in three women have rarely – or never – had an orgasm at all.
“It’s important to understand that orgasms are a reflex reaction – they’re not guaranteed and they don’t happen every time you have sex,” says Dr Stuart Flanagan from Radio 1’s The Surgery. Still, we think faking it should only be for eyelashes and manicures. So put down your dogeared copy of Fifty Shades Darker, ladies – your orgasms are about to get real. Here are seven orgasms to help get your groove back.
Deep inside you, where the end of your vagina meets your cervix, there are two mega arousal zones —your anterior and posterior