ARGUING RULES

1. Take responsibility for your own emotions. 2. Avoid bringing up the past. 3. Put yourself in their shoes. 4. Tell your partner you love them. 5. Be prepared for some compromise. 6. Learn to live with difference. 7. Respect your partner’s views. 8. Don’t confuse behaviour with character. 9. Avoid beginning a row at a negative moment. 10. Take time out.