To avoid sleeping with a total jerk (or a great guy before you’re ready), ask yourself these questions. If you answer NO to most of these, you might want to rethink your decision!
Are you having sex for the right reasons?
Are you comfortable with who you are, your sexual preferences and boundaries?
Are you having sex because you are feeling pressured? Would you be okay with never seeing him again? Do you like who you are when you are with this person?
Are you comfortable expressing your sexual boundaries?
Are you sober?